Bethany Adair was diagnosed at 34 with Stage II breast cancer, and is now living with Stage IV metastatic disease. She is a mindset coach, speaker, MBC thriver and author of My Guru Cancer.
Bethany Adair reads her piece “A Letter to My Greatest Guru” from Wildfire Magazine’s 2023 “MBC: Lessons Learned” issue. Her essay is about viewing a cancer experience as an opportunity to grow into an authentic version of yourself.
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